Considering homeschooling
Current Mood:
Confused
As is the case with many states, Illinois requires certain health checks for their students. Immunization records, eye exams, and physicals (including BMI!) are mandatory for children beginning school in the state of Illinois. This is all well and good, I accept it. However, informing parents that this is required fifteen days before it is due is not acceptable. I have gotten a few calls from the school nurse in the last couple of weeks regarding this. And you know what? I can’t afford a regular doctor, we do not have health insurance. So I have to take him to the local clinic for this. They are overbooked on their schedules, so I can’t get an appointment for him until November 16th, a month after the requirement of October 15th. So the nurse has said he will be kicked out of school until then. A month without schooling can be devastating to a child’s education, so I will have to continue his education at home. The nurse tried to argue the case about going to a Walgreen’s walk-in clinic or other walk-in clinics, but I honestly can NOT afford that right now. So, what I am deeply considering is this: Using this month of his being kicked out as a trial time for home schooling. If it doesn’t work, he can go back. If it does work, we’ll unenroll him.
I should probably specify his particular schooling situation: He is ADHD. In his school last year, his IEP (Individualized Education Plan) had him labeled as “emotionally disturbed” because he was so disruptive in class. So his new school put him in class with other “emotionally disturbed” kids… And that’s not the class for him. His teacher called and told me that he needs to be out of her class very soon, because he’s getting some very bad influences. He’s not got any worse problem than a massive case of “ants in the pants” syndrome. I am very hesitant to medicate him, because he is already very thin (ADD meds often curb children’s appetites), and because meth is bad for kids. I want medication to be a very, very last-ditch effort.
So for my wool-gathering and for your (probably lack of) interest, here are the pros that I can think of with home-schooling him.
- Direct attention
My son has ADHD, and he really needs a lot of attention given to him specifically. He has since birth. In a large r classroom he is “just a number,” so to speak. - Individualized education
Just like any other child, he has his educational strengths and weaknesses. I can focus more on one subject and less on another for his individual subject needs, versus x amount per subject. - Potential acceleration
When I was in school I learned very quickly, then got bored very quickly. I was a “troublemaker” because of this boredom. Rather than doing busywork in my seat, I would pester my neighbors or otherwise interrupt class. I didn’t want to write all the numbers from 1-100, how boring! I knew how to do that! Thankfully I was in a private school with smaller classes, and they identified that I didn’t have a learning disability (after having put me in remedial classes, YAWN!), but that I was very bored and needed more of a challenge. They even discussed skipping a grade, but that didn’t happen. I can’t say that my son will be like this, but it is possible. - Removing him from bullies
Nothing degrades a child’s self-esteem like being bullied. Trust me, I know. And in his current class he has a couple of bullies, because he is in a class that has first through third graders. The older kids pick on him. - Removing him from bad influences
He has picked up curse words from his classmates (like most parents, we don’t curse around our children). His teacher told me that he was also picking up some other very bad habits from his classmates. Apparently his school district has never had a child with severe ADHD; they have no other class options for him. - More positive stimulation
How cool would it be to study about snakes during science, then have a trip to the herpetarium at the zoo to reinforce the education?
Okay, so those are some pretty cool positives to educating him at home. However, there will also be some cons.
- Staying sane
Super duper ADHD boy can sometimes drive Mom nuts. And this is a very important one. - Lack of peers
He’s a very social boy, and loves to be around kids his own age. There are no children in our neighborhood, so we will have to find a play group or something similar to allow him to socialize with other children. - I’ve got no idea what I’m doing
Okay, so I have the Internet. I have friends that have done this too. Most parents haven’t done this before, and much of parenting is unchartered territory. But still… This is kind of a strange situation to me. Granted a child’s first teachers are their parents anyway, but this is a bit different.
So there we go, some thoughts and ideas on the situation… And now I welcome yours. I know there’s a lot of resources out there, and I am currently exploring them. I just took a break from researching to kind of get my thoughts laid out and shared. Please leave me some feedback.
And as I mentioned previously, IL charges for school books. We’ve not paid it yet, so why not invest that $50 into books we can have forever?







